suffer (reading this text, for ex)
is suffering a need from human beings ? i mean, besides not-human-contact life, social life is mostly based in suffering. when you are friends with somebody its course harder to suffer, as if you have loyal friends there isn’t going to be a big reason. When relationships starts to be closer, like family, or romances, things start to get really rough. not that i am in a situation that can be called suffering, totally different, i’m complete and happy either in family and romances, but, a five minute reflection can make you think of giving up of EVER having relationships !
mom and dad you have to put up with. but i mean, what is the chance of a love of a 15 year old girl with a 16 year old guy, for example, going through time and making towards their whole life ? i mean, really few chances. so, if theres no chance that a teen relationship will go towards life, and not only teen, but middle age, adult… why do people get into them ?
‘right-now’ happiness of course is important, but is that enough good for making suffer a KNOWN thing to come ? thats why suffer is a need, human beings LIKE to suffer , LIKE to reread all that story that they went through and think about and MOSTLY and WISELY learn about it. suffering is a need to learn about life, to learn about practical life. in that way, you can include suffering in every single aspect of life, including non social.
but, ok, just because suffering is a good thing to learn, do we choose it for good ?
maybe yes, and we all have to suffer. maybe no, and we are obligated to feel it, to regret, to feel like shit, and to see the shit can be lowwww bellow. maybe i just should shut up, stop thinking thinking about life sometimes, and go back to my ‘right-now’ happiness… Even without thinking, i’m in things that can make me suffer, and i have a crush on all aspects of these things.
xoxoxoxota,
pedro
