x say: you do what i want, i wont
when you are in school you follow rules.. i mean, everywhere you r following rules, even if some of them may seem awkward. when you have something, and it can be from a restaurant to a relationship, you build rules around it, that basically make you feel like having lot more control of the situation, not necessarily of the thing.
the weird thing about laws/rules, is that people that are beyond them, or, explaining a little better, ppl that aren’t going to be affected if they follow these rules, normally do NOT follow them. A owner of a house will step in his grass if he wants to, at all, is his. A cooker will cook without a headband if he wants, its his food.
but what do you do when you find yourself in a situation that both people are rule makers, but all you do is accept and swallow ? the most weird thing is that you swallow the rules, you follow the law, and you still feel wrong.
Maybe rules in relationships and things are personal, and should be, even when the main fact is shared, created and respected by each one of the participants.Maybe all you should do is accept and swallow, but create your rules, and ,sometimes, use them as limits to stand or not a situation for grand.
